Marriage isn’t just a contract—it’s a covenant. And when God is at the center, what feels ordinary can suddenly become extraordinary.
So let’s pause and ask a powerful question:
What has God done in your marriage lately?
Not what’s going wrong, but what’s been growing?
Not just what you're facing, but how has God been faithful?
We often look for big miracles, but sometimes God's greatest work in our marriage shows up in the small shifts, subtle breakthroughs, and silent moments of grace.
Maybe it’s the softening of a heart that once felt distant.
Or the return of laughter in a home once filled with tension.
Maybe it’s praying together more often.
Or simply learning to say, “I’m sorry,” a little quicker.
Whatever it is—God is working. Even in seasons that feel dry, His hand is moving beneath the surface, preparing a harvest of healing, unity, and deeper love.
Why Weekly Reflection Matters
When you take the time to reflect on what God is doing in your marriage, you shift your focus from what’s lacking to what’s lasting. You begin to see that progress is still progress—even if it’s slow. You realize that your marriage is a living testimony of God’s grace, mercy, and restoration.
And here’s the beautiful part: what you reflect on, you’ll begin to appreciate. What you appreciate, you’ll protect.
How to Start a Weekly Reflection with Your Spouse
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Ask Each Other: What’s one way we’ve seen God move in our marriage this week?
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Journal Together: Keep a shared notebook or note in your phone with weekly reflections.
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Pray Over It: Thank God for what He’s done—and ask Him for what’s still needed.
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Speak Life: Remind your spouse of the ways you’ve seen them grow or love you better.
Final Thought
God is always doing something—even when it’s not loud, obvious, or perfect. Your marriage isn’t just surviving; it’s being shaped by the hands of the One who created it.
So this week, take a moment and ask:
What has God done in your marriage lately?
Then thank Him—and keep walking forward together.