In a world that often teaches us to hoard, hustle, and hold tightly to every dollar, couples of faith are called to a higher standard: unity in finances — built not on fear, but on faith and trust in God.
When Two Become One (Wallet)
Marriage isn’t just about sharing a home, a bed, or last names. It’s also about sharing goals, burdens, and bank accounts. Financial unity doesn’t mean losing your individual voice—it means harmonizing your values, dreams, and decisions.
“And the two shall become one flesh.” — Mark 10:8
That includes becoming one in how you spend, save, give, and trust.
Fear Says: “There’s Never Enough.”
Faith Says: “God Is My Provider.”
It’s easy to let fear rule our financial decisions:
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"What if I lose my job?"
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"What if we can’t pay the bills?"
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"What if we never have enough to retire?"
But fear leads to division. Fear whispers that we should hide money, control decisions, or avoid tough conversations. Fear pushes God out of the budget. But faith invites Him in.
“For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.” — 2 Timothy 1:7
Practical Steps Toward Financial Unity
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Pray Together About Money
Make God the CFO of your household. Pray over financial decisions, no matter how big or small. -
Be Transparent
Unity requires honesty. Be open about debts, income, credit scores, and spending habits. -
Create a Shared Budget
Build a budget that reflects shared values—like giving, saving, and enjoying life within your means. -
Tithe Faithfully
Tithing is a reminder that everything we have is God’s. It’s a declaration of trust and obedience. -
Fight the Problem, Not Each Other
Money arguments are common—but they don’t have to divide. Attack the issue, not your spouse.
Trust God, Not the Numbers
The world teaches us that security comes from wealth. God teaches us that security comes from Him.
“But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” — Matthew 6:33
Choosing to put God first in your finances is choosing unity, peace, and purpose. It’s not easy—but it is blessed.
Final Thought:
Marriage is not just a covenant of love—it's a partnership of purpose. And when you honor God with your finances, He honors your faith with provision, clarity, and peace.
Let’s stop fearing the future and start trusting the One who holds it.
Put God first—and watch your finances follow in faith, not fear.